quarrel
is quarrel a good sign happen in any relationship? will it bring them apart or should i say will it bring them closer ever?
some might say, quarrel is a bad thing, as it can make a gap in between a particular relationship as both side do not agree or forgive to each other, the more they quarrel, the worse it gets. the longer they quarrel, the fader the relationship. the fader the relationship, they end up the relationship. it is because both party do not want to lose, they rather lost a frendship than keeping their own rights and faces.
few will say, quarrel is a remedy to any relationship as it makes improvement or development in between. one will not sees it, but feels it. hence, the more u quarrel, the better the relationship, the longer u quarrel, the less quarrel occurs. it is all depend on how u maintain the relationship here as you might say, quarrel will get fed up and turn annoying in long term. Understanding! tat is the key point ,once u cherish a particular relationship, together, they will build up a wall to stablize and gaining their confidence, trust and eternity, because you cherish, you love each other. it is sad to quarrel…. but if u thk back, and analysis it, it is meaningful. u learn, in every quarrel, people tent to reflect their weakness and toughtness. ways to solve it…
learn to control temper
learn to forgive
learn to listen
learn to react
learn to learn
learn to teach
learn to express
learn to care
learn to love
July 27th, 2005 at 9:51 am
as a couple without quarrel, there juz unnormal to be begin. As i think no quarrel no caring, no quarrel no understanding,no quarrel loving each.. for me, quarrel juz a part of my life, maybe u think i’m weird to have such mind,coz i’m the person who want to find trouble and find quarrel, but i can said everytime after quarrel wth the one who i love, i found tat i know him more than b4 and more than i expected,love to each will become more deeper asw well too! but remember this as well too, after quarrel must try a way to solve it!! once both still loving each, need not care who the one who find quarrel in 1st or who the one,rite and wrong! just solve it and loving each more! quarrel is a part of learning in the relation ship! so cherish the one love, and learn sth in the process of the quarrel.. sure will lasting and forever!
July 30th, 2005 at 9:42 pm
homiegal, u’re defenitely on the point! agree until kenot agree more =) quarrel may be a threat if it’s handled badly, but it may turn out to be stimulation to a relationship if both take it well…
bro, listen to your stupid sista… hahahaha… sometimes i wonder if she’s older than you hahahahaha..
July 31st, 2005 at 2:40 am
ops, i always messed up you with her sis, soli IngWen =P